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1. Talk it over

Don鈥檛 let the office atmosphere go stale along with your career. If your boss refuses to budge, don鈥檛 resort to Gordon Brown-style backstage manoeuverings; talk to them directly, one human being to another.

鈥淵ou have to be bold in your approach and bring matters to a head,鈥� says Richard Steer, senior partner of construction consultant Gleeds. 鈥淥lder people have to acknowledge that any dynamic business needs people coming through. They should be wise enough to recognise this and accommodate them.鈥�

You could ask for more responsibility, suggests Gill Sharp, an adviser for Graduate Prospects. 鈥淵ou have to walk the walk as well as talk the talk,鈥� she says.

Path to power 鈥� if you have a good working relationship with your boss.

Road to ruin 鈥� if your boss is a control freak who won鈥檛 delegate any responsibilities.

2. Be selfless

If it鈥檚 clear your boss is as stuck in a rut as you are, forget about your own career for a while and do some research on their behalf. Just as the chancellor may

point Tony Blair towards a publisher who would offer a large cheque for his memoirs, you could inform your boss of any opportunities for a less stressful, yet still lucrative career.

鈥淪enior employees are increasingly working in a consultancy capacity, in a training and development role, or becoming a guru within their particular field,鈥� says Jill Pett, HR partner at Davis Langdon. 鈥淭here are creative ways to use senior executives within an organisation, which open the way for others.鈥�

According to Steer, the best way for you to handle bosses who seem intent on working into their 90s, is to expose them to the attractive options they could pursue. 鈥淚t takes negotiation and some cunning but you can pander to people鈥檚 egos. Find them nice consultancies and pet projects. Keep them happily occupied while you get on with the day-to-day running of the business.鈥�

Path to power 鈥� if you are able to handle the situation sensitively and you have your boss鈥� best interests at heart (as well as your own).

Road to ruin 鈥� if you plan to be patronising, or your boss is still decades away from retirement age.

3. Move sideways

If you鈥檙e getting nowhere trying to work with your boss, forget moving up and move sideways instead. Don鈥檛 stay still for too long, and try to learn from as many people as possible.

鈥淧ursue opportunities for secondments to a client鈥檚 site for a period of time, go to work in other offices in the UK, or move across project lines and disciplines,鈥� suggests Amy Preston, graduate recruitment and development consultant for EC Harris.

Work outside your job role and take part in company projects so you get to know your business inside-out. 鈥淒on鈥檛 just rely on your day-to-day work,鈥� says Preston. 鈥淕o over and above by becoming involved in extracurricular activities such as focus groups and giving talks at your old university to get the company brand out there.鈥�

Preston says this kind of exposure will increase your chances of getting on a coveted fast-track scheme: 鈥淵our name has to come up in discussions,鈥� she says. 鈥淣etworking is key. Get noticed and remembered.鈥�

Don鈥檛 be afraid to put forward strategies and ideas, but be prepared to deliver them. You have to walk the walk as well as talk the talk

Gill Sharp, Graduate Prospects

Path to power 鈥� if you fancy a new challenge.

Road to ruin 鈥� if you鈥檙e so bored your enthusiasm drained away long ago.

4. Specialise

Changes in company structures have led to fewer managerial roles so you may well find other employees waiting in line for your boss鈥� job.

鈥淐limbing the greasy pole of promotion often just isn鈥檛 an option these day,鈥� says Angela Baron, an adviser at the Chartered Institute for Professional Development.

鈥淥rganisations have become much flatter in the past 10 to 15 years. Layers of hierarchy have been taken out, as it makes the business easier to manage with the decision-making closer to the customer,鈥� she says.

Whereas status in the workplace used to relate to the numbers you managed, now it depends on your level of expertise. 鈥淗ighly paid, high-status jobs are increasingly the ones where people have taken a specialist career route,鈥� says Baron.

Gill Sharp says there are several ways to pursue further training. 鈥淵ou can learn skills by osmosis 鈥� by reading, attending lectures, through colleagues 鈥� or you can take evening classes or take a distance-learning course.

鈥淵ou can also take advantage of CPD [continuing professional development] at the firm鈥檚 expense,鈥� she says.

Path to power 鈥� if you fancy focusing your working life on a particular area you find interesting.

Road to ruin 鈥� if after several courses your company still refuses to use your skills.

5. Leave the country

Leave your boss and related career problems at home in the UK and make yourself stand out from the crowd by working a stint in one of your firm鈥檚 overseas offices.

鈥淪tay within the same company, but go overseas where there are more opportunities for management experience,鈥� says Steer. 鈥淩unning an overseas office gives you more space and responsibility. There is more of a spotlight on you, younger and earlier. You can come back to the UK with that experience.鈥�

RICS spokesman Graham Smith says younger people can benefit from the high demand for construction professionals worldwide: 鈥淵ounger people do not have the family commitments. They are able to get up and go at the drop of a hat.鈥�

Bola Abisogun, 35, already runs his own chartered surveying firm, Accessable Advice. He believes the work he has done overseas remains the key to his future success. 鈥淚nternational exposure has been the making of me as a professional,鈥� he says. 鈥淲orking overseas is lucrative for people willing to take risks and move out of their comfort zones.鈥�

Path to power 鈥� if you鈥檙e excited by the idea of working abroad and have no dependants in the UK.

Road to ruin 鈥� if you love the British weather and get homesick easily.